Shauhar Ke Huqooq

Shauhar Ke Huqooq:

ALLAH Ta’ala irshad farmata he
Wo tumhari libas he aur Tum unke libas.
(Kanzul iman Para 2,Surah Bakar,Aayat 187)

Ummulmomenin Hazrat Aayesha siddiqa Wa Hazrat Abuhuraira radiallahu anhu se riwayat he ki Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
Agar me kisi ke liye Sajde ka hukm deta to Aurato ko hukm deta ki apne shohar ko sajda kare.
(Tirmizi sharif Jild 1,Bab 788,Hadees 1158,Safa 594)

Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam se daryaft kiya ki
Behtarin Aurat ki pehchan kya he?
Aapne farmaya
“Jo Aurat apne Shauhar ki ita’at wa farmabardari kare.”
(Nisaai sharif Jild 2,Safa 364)

Hazrat Abu said radiallahu anhu se riwayat he ke Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
Shauhar ki Na shukri karna ek tarah ka Kufra he aur ek kufra dusre se kam hota he.
(Bukhari sharif Jild 1,Bab 21,Hadees 28,Safa 109)

Hazrat Abdullah ibne Abbas se riwayat he ki Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
Muze dozakh dikhai gayi maine waha Aurato ko jyada paya wajah ye he ki wah Kufra karti he.
Sahaba-E-Kiram ne arz kiya
Kya wo Allah ke sath Kufra karti he?
Pyare Aaqa ne farmaya
Nahi ! wo shauhar ki Na-shukri karti he.
Jo ke ek tarah ka kufra he aur Ehsan nahi manti agar tu kisi aurat se umar bhar ehsan aur neki ka sulook kare lekin 1 bat bhi khilafe tabiyat ho jaye to zat kah dengi
“Maine tuzse kabhi aaram aur sukoon nahi paya”
(Bukhari sharif Jild 1,Bab 21,Hadees 28,Safa 109)

Hazrat Umar Radiallahu anhu se riwayat he ki Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
“Tumko nahi malum Aurat ke liye Shirk ke bad subse bada gunah Shauhar ki Na-farmani he”
(Gunyatuttalebin Safa 114)

Hazrat Abuhuraira radiallahu anhu se riwayat he ki Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
Shauhar apni biwi ko jis waqt bistar par bulaye aur wo aane se mana karde to us aurat par khuda ke farishte subah tak La’ant karte rehte he.
(Bukhari sharif Jild 3,Bab 115,Hadees 178,Safa 96)

Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
Jab shauhar apni Hajat (Sohbat) ke liye biwi ko bulaye to biwi agar roti paka rahi ho to usko lazim he ki sub kam chod kar shauhar ke pas hazir ho jaye.
(Tirmizi sharif Jild 1,Bab 788,Hadees 1159,Safa 595)

Hazrat Aayesha radiallahu anha se marwi he Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ki khidmat me 1 jawan aurat hazir hui aur arz kiya
Ya Rasoolallah ! Me jawan aurat hu.
Muze nikah ke paigam aate he magar me shadi ko bura samazti hu.
Aap muze bataiye biwi par shauhar ka kya haq he!
Pyare Aaqa ne farmaya
Agar shauhar ki choti se edi tak peep ho aur woh use jaban se chate to bhi shauhar ka haq ada nahi kar payegi.
Usne pucha:
To me shadi na karu?
Aapne farmaya
Tum shadi karo kyunki isme bhalai he.
(Mukashefatul Kuloob Bab 95,Safa 617)