Suhagraat Shab-E-Zafaf Ka Sunnat Tariqa | First Night Of Marriage In Islam

Mere Pyare Islami Bhai Behano Nikah Karna Sarkare Madina Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ki Sunnate Mubaraka Hai. Nikah Ke Fazilat Ke Talluqse Bohotsi Ahadees Sharif Mauzood Hai. Nikah Haramkari Se Bacha Kar Halal Ki Taraf Le Jata Hai. Nikah Karne Par Aadha Deen Muqammal Ho Jata Hai. Beshaq Islam Duniya Ka Sabse Afzal Mazhab Hai. Islam Me Mard Aur Aurat Dono Par Ek Dusre Ke Huqooq Hai Jinhe Ada Karna Unpe Wazib Hai. In Huqooq Me Kotahi Gunah Ka Sabab Hai. Lihaza Jin Logo Ko Ye Galatfehmi Ho Ke Huqooq Sirf Aurato Par Hi Hai Wo Apni Islah Kare. Aur Apne Biwiyo Ke Huqooq Ada Kare Warna Roz-E-Mehshar Is Gunah Ke Sabab Giraft Honge.

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Suhagraat Nikah Ki Pehli Rat Hai Jiske Talluq Se Awaam Me Bohotsi Galatfehmiya Hai Jinko Door Karne Ke Liye Sahi Islami Tariqe Ko Yaha Bayan Kiya Gaya Hai.
Jub Dulha, Dulhan Kamare Me Jaye Aur Tanhayi Ho To Behtar Ye Hai Ki Subse Pehle Dulha, Dulhan Wuzoo Karle Aur Fir 2 Rakat Nafil Namaz Shukrana (Ba Jama’at) Padhe. Dulhan Agar Haiz (Mahvari) Ki Halat Me Ho To Namaz Na Padhe. Dulha Imaamat Kare Aur Dulhan Shohar Ke Pichhe Namaz Padhe.

Namaz Ki Niyat

Niyat Ki Maine 2 Rakat Namaz Nafil Shukrane Ki Waste ALLAH Ta’ala Ke Rukh Mera Kaaba Sharif Ke Taraf, ALLAHO Akbar.

Ab Humesha Jaise Namaz Padhte Hai Waise Hi Namaz Padhe Aur is Tarah Dua Kare

“Aye ALLAH Tera Shukra Aur Ehsan Hai Ki Tune Hume Ye Din Dikhaya Aur Hume is Khushi Wa Ne’amat Se Nawaza Aur Hume Apne Habeeb Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam Ki Sunnat Par Amal Karne Ki Taufiq Ata Farmayi.
Ya ALLAH Rabbul Aalameen Humari is Khushi Ko Humesha Isi Tarah Kayam Rakh, Hum Dono Ko Mel Milap Pyar Muhabbat Ke Sath Zindagi Gujarne Ki Taufiq Ata Farma. Ya Rabbe Qadir Hume Nek Farmabardar Aulad Ata Farma.
Aameen

(Gunyatuttalebin Jild: 5, Safa: 115)

Hazrat Abdullah ibne masud Radiallahu ta’ala anho Farmate Hai
“Ek shaks ne bayan kiya ki maine ek jawan ladki se nikah kar liya he aur muze dar he ki wo muze pasand nahi karegi.
Hazrat Abdullah bin Masud ne farmaya:
Muhabbat Allah ki taraf se hoti he aur nafrat shaitan ke taraf se.
jub tum biwi ke pas jao to subse pehle use kaho ki woh tumhare piche 2 rakat namaz padhe.

(Gunyatuttalebin Jild: 5, Safa: 115)

Namaz aur fir uske bad dua padh lene ke bad dulha,dulhan palang par sukun se baith jaye fir uske bad dulha apni dulhan ki peshani ke thode bal apne sidhe hath me narmi ke sath muhabbat bhare andaz me pakade aur ye Dua padhe:

Hazrat Amra bin Aas Radiallahu Anho se riwayat he ke Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya:
“Jab koi shaks nikah kare aur pehli rat (Suhag rat) ko apni dulhan ke pas jaye to narmi ke sath uski peshani ke thode se bal apne sidhe hath me le kar yah dua padhe:

“Allahumma inni as aluka min khaire-h-wa-khaire-m jabal-t-h-alayhe wa auzoo be-ka-min sharre-h-wa sharre-m-jabal-t-h-Alaih”


Tarjuma:
Aye Allah mai tuzse iski (Biwi ki) bhalai aur khairo barkat mangta hu aur uski fitari aadato ki bhalai, aur teri panah chahta hu isko burai aur fitari aadato ki burai se.

(Abu Dawood Jild: 2, Safa: 150, Hasne hasin Safa: 164)

Ek Badi Galatfehmi

Kuch logo ka khayal he ki jub Aurat se pehli bar sohbat ki jaye to uski Sharmgah se khoon kharij hona jaruri hai.
Ye khoon ka aana uske ba ajmat pak daman hone ka suboot samza jata he
Agar khoon nahi aaya to aurat badchalan aawara samzi jati he aur aurat ki sharafat aur ba ajmat hone me shak kiya jata he. Aaiye is masle ke bare me hum jante hai.

Kuwari ladkiyo ki sharmgah me thoda andar ek patali zilli hoti he.
Jise Parda-E-Ajmat Ya Parda-E-Bakarat (Hymen) kehte hai. 
Is zilli me chota sa surakh hota he jiske jariye ladaki ke balig hone par Haiz (Mahwari) ka khoon apne waqt par khariz hota rehta he.
Shadi ke bad jab mard pehli bar sohbat karta he to mard ke Uzoo-E-Tanasul ke uske takarane ki wajahse wo zilli fat jati he.
Is mauke par aurat ko thodi taklif hoti he aur thodasa khoon kharij hota he.
Fir yah zilli humesha ke liye khatam ho jati he.
lekin ye zilli patali aur najuk hoti he to kai martaba kisi ladaki ko ye kisi mamuli chot ya kisi hadse ki wajahse ya kabhi khud ba khud fat jati he. Lihaza agar aurat se sohbat ke dauran khoon na nikale to use aawara samazna munasib na hoga jub tak ki mukammal sharai suboot na ho

“Jiska Parda-E-Ajmat kudne,haiz aane ya jakhm ya umar jyada hone ki wajahse fat jaye wo aurat hakikat me Bakirah (Kuwari, Pak daman) hai.

(Tanwirul Absar, Fatwa-E-Razviya Jild: 12, Safa: 36)